A little update on my "internalizing post" last week. I have found many moments of solitude which have been very good and very enlightening for me. I have taken SEVERAL showers (like many more than I normally do) just so that I can get away and stop myself from feeling overwhelmed BEFORE I start to get nervous or anxious - calming myself before the storm so to speak. It's been very good. I'm also trying my best to start filling my evenings with apple slices instead of corn chips. All I can do is try.
Zac and I got to go out last night and the date was just so relaxing .... eating in a dark restaurant (comfort food, not stressing over calories) just talking casually and having no expectations....he then had to coach soccer for a hour so I dropped him off and walked through a book store...went back and watched him work with his soccer boys just like old times. After practice we went to Starbucks and sat outside drinking lattes and watching the outdoor fireplace. Dreamy. I THEN came home and feel asleep by 8:45 pm...if I could lift my drink right now to nights of 10 hours sleep I would (there's not a drop of beverage in the house however...so I raise my hot tea to health.)
Moving on. I found a wonderful Christian therapist who referred me to Summit Counseling Center in Chattanooga and I was able to make Brady's first appointment for next Thursday. I'm a little nervous about this whole thing...letting someone into our lives and telling them deep dark secrets - no, really I'm more nervous about trying to *explain* Brady. I'm scared of them finding major issues to work with him on / I'm also scared that they won't. I know this is the next step for us and that we need help parenting him...and he needs help learning how to cope with normal emotions that other's just take for granted. So, if you think of it pray for us at 10 am next Thursday....that it would just be a comfortable experience.
Shhhh....don't tell anyone but I want another little girl REALLY bad! I, of course, would love another son just because I think about how neat that will be to have a house full of MEN someday...but a baby girl is just a little, well...just a little rosebud.
Blessings,
Alyssa Spring
5 comments:
Thanks for sharing your heart...dreams...and fears. You dad and I know how to pray for you and your little family. You have some fun things to look forward to, Springy, all which God will be there to experience with you.
Looking forward to your next blog!
We love you.
What another lover lovely post! Praying and rejoicing with you.
YAY, Alyssa! For everything...just YAY! I will be praying for all the "YAY" things! And I totally share your secret "girly" wish! :>D
Does my heart good to see the children and you two too! That is a lovely picture of you Springtime.
My prayers are with you in everything you do with the family and special needs always. Love and hugs forever, GG
I just noticed the new pic of you and you're wearing your bracelet! I'm so glad you like it! It's 12:35 am and I'm making applebutter in the pressure cooker. My house smells YUM!!!
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